FM is too much management and not enough game. OOTP is perhaps too much game and not enough management. Since I work at a highly stressful job there is no way I want or need the interactivity of FM. OOTP wins for me because I like playing and watching baseball
I think trying to compare the games is silly. Especially with the stated purpose of saying how bad OOTP is. The two sports are so radically different in set up preparation and execution that you just can't compare, especially at the training level. Baseball is played Football is practiced for.